The Quickie
The 90-minute process that identifies what's blocking your desire and gives you a personalized action plan to get unstuck.
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Partners Often Struggle with Lack of Sex for Six Common Reasons
These are avoidable and reversible with some knowledge and support!
- There's a lack of emotional intimacy. Couples feel more like roommates or co-parents than romantic partners. This could be due to lingering resentment or avoiding important conversations.
- One or both partners are censoring themselves when it comes to sex based on how they were socialized. This could be related to religion, gender norms or family of origin
- Sometimes couples find themselves on different pages when it comes to things like kink/fetish or non-monogamy. They adore each other, but aren't sure how to find the path forward, so things have come to a standstill.
- People may feel anxious or awkward about initiating sex or expressing their desires. They may have learned that sex was sinful, destructive, chaotic or too vulnerable. Instead they keep their thoughts to themselves.
- Burn out. This is the most common pattern I see! People are exhausted from being a stellar worker, taking care of kids or pets, long commutes, lingering health issues, etc. Burn out takes a big toll on libido.
- Simply put, lack of knowledge. Not understanding how libido works makes it very hard to fix it! This is the case even when you've been to therapy and are a good communicator.
These issues are the root causes most couples experience when they're struggling with mismatched libidos in their relationship. Coaching will help you identify which pattern(s) are impacting your relationship so you can feel excited and playful about your sex life rather than stressed.

Hey, I'm Heather!
I'm a Certified Sex Therapist, host of the top 1% podcast, Ask A Sex Therapist, and a relationship expert for the Peanut app, which serves 5M+ women around the world.
I've helped thousands of people with their sex life over the course of my 19 years as a counselor and coach and I can't wait to help you!
The Quickie - For Individuals
Discover what's getting in the way of you having the sex life of your dreams with your partner. Get an expert assessment and coaching with personalized recommendations for getting on the right track.
Here's What You Get In The Quickie Package:
✅ Assessment + Report (normally $199)
✅ 60-Min Coaching Session (normally $300)
✅ Libido Reboot Guide (normally $49) ← Bonus!
💰 Total Value: $548
Your investment is only $295
Afterpay and Klarna payment plans available.
For new clients only
You're In Good Hands!
In my 19 year career, I've spent over 10,000 hours directly counseling and coaching my clients and have supported 34,000 people's sexual journeys through my Ask A Sex Therapist podcast.
See What These Coaching Clients Have To Say!



The Quickie offers a simple, 3-step process!
Address low or mismatched libidos by identifying your core patterns and receiving an expert-created action plan.

Get Coached
This is where you can share your goals and obstacles. Then, I will help you uncover your relationship's potential in our 60-min session!

Implement Advice
You'll be provided with an easy-to-follow 1-page report with my suggestions. Put these into action to get results!
No One Ever Taught Us Healthy Intimacy Growing Up.
Don't Leave Your Most Precious Relationship To Chance.
Intimate relationships are often the most challenging and most rewarding aspects of life. You need to get communication right, master your partner's turn-ons, read their mind when they're in the right mood for sex and figure out how to initiate seductively. Very few people learned this from parents, school or church growing up. And the information we get from porn is not meant to be educational.
Schedule your Quickie Coaching Package today and let's figure out which old patterns aren't working for your love life and which new ones will get you to the type of fun, steamy, playful relationship you really want.